Saturday, September 29, 2012

One that Brings Peace



Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.
~Buddha

 As I hide from my truth, run from all that I know, ignore the vibrations of my soul, my apartment gets tidied, my laundry gets cleaned, my radio gets played, soup stock gets cooked, books get read, and my heart remains frozen.   

In my soul, I know that I love to run.  I have known this all my life.  Despite my natural athleticism, my formative years held no encouragement in that area.  I remember the time I went to the gym and a boy hit me in the head with a barbell, telling me girls were not welcome.  When I awakened from the knock out, I never went back.  When I joined sports teams in school, the coaches focused on the fast girls, the tall girls.  Chubby, struggling girls didn’t warrant notice or assistance.  I never went back.  But today, I am a grown woman, and I know that my body loves the feel of running.  I am confident and strong after I jog.  There is a sway in my walk, an awareness of my sensuality, an appreciation of the world around me.  Lines are sharper, colors are more vivid, men are more handsome after my run. 

Buddha said that “Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.”  Today, I take that and change the tiniest thing.  I know that better than a thousand hollow actions – the tidying, the cleaning, the cooking, the reading – is one action that brings peace.  For me, that action is running.
 
And now I ask you... what is that one action that brings peace for you?


A photo of me from a couple of months ago - jogging in Seongnam Park.  Look how happy I am!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Gangnam Style

I didn't realize HOW popular this song was until Psy was on the Ellen show with Britney Spears.  (That was weird).  Anyway, the song is really subversive and is actually poking fun at some pretty ingrained parts of Korean culture.  Being perfect, beautiful, "seen" is rather like Hollywood, I suppose, but in a tiny country like the ROK, with a Confucian tradition and a whole lot of group think, the pressure to be perfect, beautiful, and seen is more intense. 

The Kpop "wave" has been led predominantly by Big Bang and Girls' Generation.  They are both groups that follow Korean kpop formula (perfect and beautiful with specific "roles" for each member of the group) and that are pretty strongly led by the nose by their companies.  They also are about as exciting as wonder white bread.  For the record, I do really like Big Bang.  I don't know whether they have better folks working with them or they are pushier about being more creative but they do have something the other bands don't - that  "thing" that stars have.

Back to the song... Gangnam is the expensive part of Korea.  It is like Beverly Hills - many of the Hallyu stars live there, it's the priciest real estate in the country, drinks can be up to $30 a pop at the club.  There is a VVIP room everywhere.  People go there to be seen.  They spend all their money on Louis Vuitton bags and have cheap underclothes.  They spend $7 or $8 on a cup of coffee in the right place and live on rice and kimchi.  The song itself is poking fun at these kinds of people.  Psy is dressed to kill, but where is he?  It looks like he's at the sauna where big wigs do business deals, but he's there with a couple of mobsters (the tattoos give it away).  He's supposed to be at the beach but he's really at a playground.  He is around horses, but what does he ride?  The Merry-Go-Round.  This is what makes it so subversive and fabulous.  It's just not DONE to say anything negative about the ROK and it's just not DONE to make fun of your "betters" (and that's how wealthy people are seen).  The fact that this older, imperfect, unattractive, and fat man is the face of Korea to the world is a just icing on the subversive cake.  (by the way, I think he's fabulous and attractive and NOT fat.... Koreans don't think that though.)

Thought you'd want a little background on this fabulous song.  Maybe Psy is the Bob Dylan / John Lennon of Korea?  Maybe Korea will actually break out of its plastic shell?  Maybe the ROK will realize that perfect is perfectly boring.  Maybe people will discover creativity here in the Land of the Morning Calm?

Time will tell.

(Photo from Han Cinema)